I'm a bit perplexed. So many books/sites/planners tell you that your venue choice should help form the framework of your wedding, but can it go the other way? I would like to have my wedding and reception at my dad's marina b/c, most importantly, it is free and the outdoor setting is beautiful. My absolute fantasy wedding style is very Anthropologie-esque, however (I wouldn't mind getting married IN an Anthropologie store, actually...) I'd like to create something as close to this as humanly possible: http://www.lauryllane.com/portfolio/anthropologie_ambiance.html
Very vintage/whimsical/DIY-ish, but nothing beachy/nautical...is it possible to have a waterfront wedding that's styled like it should be in a vinyard?