What tome should I host my outdoor wedding? It's going to be a late august wedding. The menu will have hamburgers, hotdogs, grilled chicken, my strip steal, and swordfish, buffet stly. My mom wants to do all these lights but it doesn't get dark until 9ish. Our honeymoon is a few hours drive and we want to leave shortly after the wedding so we don't want it to be too late. But is a 3:00 wedding too early for that kind of meal?