Sts. Peter & Paul is pretty laid back about everything. The one thing they don't joke about it the lights. They mean it! They will turn the lights off on you. I put together the list of the formal portraits using people's name as well as their relation to me and DH i.e. Father of Bride, Niece, etc. I gave this list to the photographer and they had it printed out to call everyone's name out. It was pretty efficient. Did you go to school there?