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I'm your BM - no, I am!

Wedding drama makes my dog hump his bed.Meanwhile, I'm sitting at my desk rubbing my temples because here I was, thinking I would be Bridal Party drama free, but NOOOOO, prove me wrong why don't you.I have a group of 7 girl friends in Lima. I didn't ask them per se. I messaged them and since they were already assuming they would be asked to be part of the bridal party, I asked them if I could count with them (as a guest, as a bridesmaid?). 2 have given me a huge YES, NO MATTER WHAT.1 is trying her hardest, truly is.1 is in, but will confirm by the end of the month.2 have been leading me on. I found out yesterday from one of my YES, NO MATTER WHAT girls that while they tell me of course, J, we'll be there, I'm trying my hardest, wouldn't miss it for the world; they keep telling the rest of our group they won't make it because the trip is too expensive and they haven't even tried.Thanks, Peter Pettigrew.And 2,500 miles away, I have two girls assuming they're in....?One of them is the same sweet girl who wants to throw me a bridal shower. Yes, I had been planning to ask her to be a BM, but not a MOH (WHAT?) and I'd like it if she could wait until I actually ... asked.I was so mad yesterday. The MOH position is not up for grabs. I don't know how many of you remember, but my MOH is not ... doing well. I can't think of anyone but her to stand by my side on that day, but:1. Everyone is against it. Wait, what's that sound? Oh, it's me not GIVING A CRAP.2. I don't know if she'll be okay. And here I care. I don't know if she'll be able to just stand there through the ceremony. Our friendship has started rupturing this whole year, we barely talk, but given our past friendship, I cannot think of anyone else as a MOH - okay, I stop now.I've run out of words, so while my dog keeps raping his bed, I'm going to assume none of this drama exists. I have a solution already, but it's in the works.In other, rather far more exciting news: I'm Cupid. My brother in law and my bridal shower friend might start dating. I expec they name their firstborn after me, even if it's a boy.

Re: I'm your BM - no, I am!

  • edited December 2011
    girls girls girls....i swear i'm such a guy sometimes because i don't get DRAMA!!
  • edited December 2011
    1.) People suck2.) Wedding drama sucks more3.) Harry Potter references make me hot
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    OOPS I WASNT DONE!anyway, Jen you're a funny girl and I love reading your posts.In the end the girls that make it will be true friends but so will those that truly wanted to but couldn't d/t money.
  • edited December 2011
    I mean, I get it, these are difficult times, I don't expect my friends to mortgage their apartments so they can attend my wedding as BMs. But I do expect honesty, which by the way is free.Tess, like I said, it's like these bizzos don't know me! LOL the friend I talk to yesterday was like "I told them 'you guys really think that lying's going to fly with JEN?'."Srsly. Not cool.
  • edited December 2011
    Hello cupid, i am amy lol Im sorry babe. Girls suck. Like Joanne - I sometimes feel like a guy. I hate drama, i wont deal. Internet drama - sure thats fine, but with my friends, i WONT deal!
  • edited December 2011
    Have you thought about calling them out on it??
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  • edited December 2011
    I have a knack for channeling Voldemort when it comes to unnecessary drama. The fact that they are my friends does not excuse them for flat out lying to me.So yes, i will call them out on it. We have always been honest with each other, not sugar coating (my Peruvian brain was about to say "candy ... wrapping?") anything.By the way, Joanne, your siggy picture is too sexy for this thread.
  • edited December 2011
    I've run out of words, so while my dog keeps raping his bedHave i told you lately I love you!?I'm sorry for the dramz. Annoying. BUT - alas, you and your honey will be married and the ladies standing up there or not coming at all are just icing on your wedding cake!!
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  • edited December 2011
    ::sulks away:: :(
  • edited December 2011
    LOL Joanne. Don't make me sing "besame, besame mucho" to you. Your siggy pic. It has alluring powers.
  • atizonatizon member
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    edited December 2011
    I hate drama..Why must girls be so dramatic. uugghh!! I hope everything works out. Like pp post if they are truly your friends if they come thru if they really tried to make it. Best of luck!!

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  • edited December 2011
    It just annoys me. If you can't make it, I get it, I won't hate you, I'll still love you. This isn't freaking Laguna Beach for you to lie to me. It's the lying that makes me mad, not the not being able to attend.Oh, drama.
  • edited December 2011
    Aye... what is it about Weddings that make people straight crazy? So frustrating. Try and breathe and know that things WILL work themselves out!
  • photonbugphotonbug member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my your do make me laugh.  Sorry about the drama but I am sure it will work out.  In the end your a getting married.  Remember that and everything else will be ok :)
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  • RhiannonBRhiannonB member
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    edited December 2011
    Ugg, I'm so sorry you have to deal with all this drama, but I love the fact that you can work Harry Potter into anything, LOL!Seriously, at the end of the day it will all work out and you'll know that the girls that are with you are truly *with* you.  Now go get all bridezilla on their arse!
  • edited December 2011
    photonbug - could I have your e-mail, please?Rhi - I can talk Harry Potter into aaanything, lol.
  • photonbugphotonbug member
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    edited December 2011
    Sure Jen vivekareed at hotmail dot com
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  • babytecbabytec member
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    edited December 2011
    lol that your dog rapes his bed!!!! sorry babe...it will all work out, i promise ;)
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