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Dismissing a BM

Ok I know I am going to sound a little B*tchy, but when I first got engaged I did a few mistakes and one of them was asking certain ppl to be BMs. I think things went to my head too quickly. Well 2 years into our engagement and now we are finally getting the ball rolling. I really don’t want to have certain ppl I asked to be in my BP  anymore. They are Fi’s  close family friends and we use to be closer but right now we have not really have much contact with them. Once in a while we see them. I still want them to go to the wedding I just don’t want them in the BP. How Do I get out of this mess without hurting anyone’s feelings?

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Re: Dismissing a BM

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    edited December 2011
    Have they asked anything about the wedding in these past two years, or at all when you do hang out?

    I had a "friend" who I asked to be one of my bridesmaids when I first got engaged. Well, things happened, our friendship fell apart and when the wedding planning got started, she was not a part of it. 

    If they have been asking, I'd just be honest with them. 
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    JudeG20JudeG20 member
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    edited December 2011
    They haven't asked at all about the wedding...So I guess that is a good sign.
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    edited December 2011
    Honestly, to avoid the ackwardness, I would just "forget" that I even asked them. 
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    edited December 2011
    Totally agree! Forget that you asked them! HAHA, probably not the best etiquette though...
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    cmp1986cmp1986 member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with PP. Just forget it.
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    Gissy4857Gissy4857 member
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    Agreeing with pp. If she hasn't even mentioned anything I suggest you don't either

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    JudeG20JudeG20 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thx girls I am just going to send them a wedding invite and act like nothing ever happened
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