I don't even know why I am posting, bcause I am too upset to TALk about it... but my biological father (who left me when I was 2)... Just called and asked if I wanted him to give me away at my wedding.
I invited his mother who actually made an effort to stay in my life, but we aren't close, but I invited her, because she feels like family, although distant and I am her only grandchild... but she never bothered to call me after I sent the Save The Date... I don't know...
Anyway... HE saw the invite and assumed I invited him. Then he has been STALKING me via phone. Calling cell, work, home, cell, and today, I wasn't paying attention and he caught me at work. 25 mins of guilt trip later I snapped. I said, I'm sorry I am only having a small wedding with close family and friends. I invited your mother because it rude have been rude not to... but with you... We have NEVER had a relationship and just because YOU want forgiveness, doesnt mean I CAN! I am at work, pelase stop calling me here! and I hung up. How can he still urtr me? I don't even know him, I just know he didn't want me for 95% of my life and if he didn't want to be there then, why shoild he get to be part of the best tuimes of my life.
I'm sorry for going off girls... I just needed to vent because I am this close to loosing it here at work and that wont do. I dont want to be a red puffy eyed. Thanks for listening!! Love you girls (so much more than I love him... isn't that crazy?)
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