YOU ARE AAAANNNOOOYYYYIIIINNNNGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!
Thats kinda what I want to yell at FMIL
FSIL tells me today that FMIL went to Davids Bridal to find out how soon in advance she has to order dresses.... why? because FSIL has 4 girls (age 13,10,4,2) that FMIL is planning on buying matching dresses for. Some people may find this cute ,,, I find it annoying. REALLY annoying. Little kids may be cute dressed alike, but a 13 year old looks slightly ridiculous dressed like her baby sisters. FMIL is trying to find any way possible to make those kids a part of my wedding. Don't get me wrong, I love my (future) neices, but FMIL makes them the center of attention at every gathering and she spends every penny she makes spoiling those kids. I was originally planning to have the two older girls be Junior Bridesmaids but eventually decided I wanted this ONE thing to be about FI and I ... not about FMILs grandkids because she would certainly make a spectacle of it. She tried forcing us to at least have them as ushers (I said no, but I'm sure she'll just urge them to act the part the day of anyways.)
So now, she's going to put the 4 of them in matching dresses and in all the family pics, they are literally going to look like my little bridesmaids. I'm not having bridesmaids; I don't like matching dresses; I don't want this wedding to be about those kids instead of it being about FI and I..... and right now, I don't care if that sounds selfish aaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
And of course, I casually mention this to FI because I am annoyed but I didn't want him to say anything to his mom because I don't like confrontations and I don't want to be the crazy bridezilla... he gets into a whole thing about "if this bothers you, you need to talk to my mom and tell her that she can't do that.. blah blah blah... it's ridiculous that you're annoyed but don't want to say anything..."
I'm glad he sees my point and supports me... but I kind of just wanted him to sympathize with me .... not blame me for not confronting her... blah
Thanks for letting me vent... I actully do feel a little better
April Siggy Challenge: The Ring
160 Got Invited (..what happened to a small wedding?!)
99 Are ready to party!
49 Are missing out!
13 Can't find the mailbox!
RSVP Date: March 23, 2011