news that I got on Christmas Day...

atizon

Hi ladies:

for those that read my post a few mths back about my non relationship with my dad he came to tell me on christmas day that he will not be able to attend my wedding. His job is not giving him the time off. I know we I don't get along with him but I feel a little hurt and sad that he wont be there. I know I act hard in front evryone that I am fine not having a father dauther realtionship but it kinda bothers me.

Also I wanted to wish all of you a late Merry Christmas it's been hectic week. There's only 86 more days for my wedding and boy is time flying by. I missed the get togethers but I hope there's more gathering so I can finally meet all of you.

twinkle82576

Awww Arly, I'm so sorry to hear that your dad won't make it to your wedding. I know it must be hard, especially since you're trying to build a relationship with him.

Merry Late Christmas to you too.

MIABRIDENTAMPA

Im sorry Arlyn, I know how you feel. It will work out. Enjoy the rest of your holidays.

lyndopo

Awww what a bummer! Even though you don't have a real relationship with him, he's still your dad and it sucks he won't be there for your big day!!

YHFoxtrot

omg honey I'm so sorry. That really stinks. Even if you don't have the best relationship, you still want him there on the day of your wedding. I can't believe that his bosses are that cold hearted to not give him off the day of your wedding.

I'm sorry sweetie. Hugs.

millenia98

I know it hurts b/c I have always gone through a littlle something with my Dad and I hope to God he can make it.

I know how you feel and I know it hurts. Merry Christmas You will have such an amazing day so keep trucking and planning that wedding of your dreams. I hope he is able to get that time off and surprise you!

Lacey36

aww sorry to hear about that girl! Hang in there and hopefully something can change before then. Merry Christmas to you too!!

courtneybrooke921

I'm so sorry to hear - hopefully something will change and he'll be able to make it-  you never know!
hang in there and happy holidays

zobo410

No reason to act hard, it's a hard thing not to have a relationship with your father. Lots of love to you. Happy holidays love.

**Octoberbride09**

I'm sorry you're dad can't make it. That really does suck.

atizon

thanks ladies. hopefully he can surprise me and make it to the wedding. xoxo