ex bff vent

Krysta6

So I normally wouldn't talk about this here. I have an ex bff that up until about a year and half ago would have been my MOH. We haven't spoken in over a year, our friendship did not end well. She wants to meet to apologize in person. While I understand that getting this stuff off of your chest is a good thing, I really don't want to feel the emotions all over again. She is someone I see often (Same groups) and it is painful and I miss her especially while planning my wedding. I'm going to go meet her sometime but I'm just really sad because this really feels like an ending/closure. 

waterroxy17

I feel its better to talk about things and let it out then not. If she isnt the same person as she was before then you know the friendship isnt there. Sometimes people mature faster than others and i've got through the same thing lately.

michimich810

It's best to meet. I was in this situation years ago. Except we never had a talk after what happened. I ran into her parents a few years after our friendship ended. We reconnected, hung out for a few years. She moved away to California. We don't keep in touch, but it was nice to have closure. She is on my Facebook and I think well of her, but our friendship just didn't work out.

rxjen

PP post offered great advice and pretty much said what I wanted to say

lgrn22

Yea I think it will help to meet. It may open up some emotions that you have pushed away but it will help you, and you may move past it. I had a friend just stop talking to me and it was so weird, but we were in different states so I didn't have to see her. I still don't have closure and think about her every once in a while. She also would have been my MOH. oh well. It will all work out for the best.

Krysta6

Thanks ladies. I guess I've always hoped that we would be friends again one day but I feel like this is closure which makes me

anaroo87

that is unfortunate... but like the girls have said... it may be a good thing to have that closure and just get things settled. Good luck and hope things work out well, even if it does mean that you just can be at peace with the fact the friendship didn't work out.