are you guys.....???

Moonstar713

postponing and putting a halt to any premarital intercourse (lol) anytime before the wedding?????

ssolo98

Lol, thought about it and it was veto-ed by the FI!

WeAreGs

lol, I think my FI will throw a fit... although usually when I am stressed I dont really "get in the mood" so by default I will probably say no! 11 months until the wedding, and with the stress, that means FI will probably be screwed as of tomorrow lmao

FutureMrsFezz

Nope we didn't.

lgrn22

haha I would like to say yes.. but FI also kinda veto'd it when I mentioned it.. But I was thinking like 2 weeks or something.. which like PP will prob be fine since I will be stressed and not want to anyway.

FaithCaitlin

Definitely not happening! FI wouldn't stand for it and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be a happy camper either, haha.

cmp1986

We are, but not for "traditional" reasons. I told him that I didn't want to have sex for the fear of getting pregnant and then not being able to fit in my dress. (TMI alert!!!) So we are just taking "care" of eachother. That way he gets his needs met and I get mine with out the fear of pregnancy. Lol

cherrystrange11

We did. It probably sounds ridiculous to most people. But we were "active" for our whole relationship, but then got very active in our church and just felt guilty because we knew what we were doing was wrong. So about 6 months before the wedding we stopped. We DID have a few slip ups around the holidays. It was REALLY hard. But it was for our own reasons.

herculeschloe

We did/are! It is KILLING FI (I'm to stressed to even go down that road) but we are staying strong! But he is counting down the days to our big day for reasons soooo different from mine! And I was threatened that if I tried to pull the whole "I'm so tired" on the night of our wedding he would get an annulment! Haha! And crazy enough, this was actually his idea!

rxjen

We are not....That second virginity ship has sailed so why would I even put my Fiance and myself thru that for the sake of feeling shiny and new again? I have nothing against those who are doing/did it but it is not for us....

herculeschloe

Its not even about feeling shiny or new for us, it was just a way for us to have something to really look forward to and anticipate on our wedding night. I don't think it is for everyone, but we have a couple we are very close to that did it and totally recommended it, saying it revitalized that area of their relationship and made it really special for them the night of (and the honeymoon was that much more fun!)

rxjen

Ok that's fine but I expressed my thoughts on it as everyone else here has done. Some may agree and some may not but it is just not for us....

lyndopo

Yeaaaaaa we didn't. Haha. But we couldn't even have our "special wedding night" cuz of stupid aunt flo!! But the night after... IT WAS ON!!!!!

LindsA90410

We actually stopped about a year ago, even before we got engaged! It has been killing him, but now since we are getting closer to the big day, we are still staying true to that and not doing it till the wedding night!

herculeschloe

As was I Jen Not everyone gets why we have decided to do it so I was just being clear. To each his own!

cherrystrange11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_guys-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:67Discussion:b019cac2-d40f-4c24-9d49-68184027b17fPost:0aa6a5c0-520d-49cd-b4ff-9145d7365a85">Re: are you guys.....???</a>:
[QUOTE]Its not even about feeling shiny or new for us, it was just a way for us to have something to really look forward to and anticipate on our wedding night. I don't think it is for everyone, but we have a couple we are very close to that did it and totally recommended it, saying <strong>it revitalized that area of their relationship and made it really special for them the night of (and the honeymoon was that much more fun!)
</strong>Posted by herculeschloe[/QUOTE]

Yes!!

anaroo87

I thought about it a couple times... but I can't do it. I need the stress relief LOL

brooklyngurl81

Wasn't planning on it lol

Dlreiter

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_guys-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:67Discussion:b019cac2-d40f-4c24-9d49-68184027b17fPost:f0c6feab-e001-4f35-ab8e-f7890130ea85">Re: are you guys.....???</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: are you guys.....??? : This is what we are doing. We decided back in September, got engaged in October, and wea re waiting until November. So watch the news on Nov 12th ladies, as we may be on it!!!! Sorry Beth, we will try to keep it down until you get married that day!! LOL!
Posted by EricaMay77[/QUOTE]

Omg a year? How do you do that.....well not technically but good for you guys! I couldn't imagine sleeping next to fi for a year without touching him! Maybe a week or few or month tops......

Moonstar713

lol wow a lot of response. I told FI he wasn't getting any a month before the wedding and it was for that feeling too, kind of to look forward to something else and so it wouldn't feel like just another night of it. Of course he said no, and I just let him think what he wanted. Well it didn't really work out, but it's going to be about 3 weeks instead of a month lol. Hopefully he doesn't trick me into it again. The good thing (TMI) I got my period last weekend so that has put a halt to it. And I've been so stressed lately and busy that there is no time either, and so has he. We don't live together and we don't sleep over each others house so that makes it easy too. But let me tell you I am so glad I got my period a little late cause I was scheduled ot have it on our HM!!! That would have sucked!!!

cherrystrange11

I forgot to add- we didnt live together before we were married. So that helped a lot. we stopped all slumber parties. It got to the point where we HAD to be in public or we were going to go at it. Ha!. Not easy!