I want to scream! I am very stressed lately with work, organizations I am involved in and with the wedding/bachelorette party. I told my fiance we are getting our marriage license when I come back from my bachelorette party on Tuesday and that he has to be there with me, of course. I told him he needs to bring his license/passport and SSN card. He replies, uh, I don't have a SSN card. What?! How can you not have one? He said he lost it years ago and never thought to replace it. Then he said it takes weeks to get and that is why he didn't bother. So, did anyone else have this happen? Is the printout you get from the Social Security office enough to get a license? Does he even need proof? I am freaking because I leave tomorrow for several days and that only leaves 3 weeks to the wedding when I get back.