Bad News for us...

Vans18

Fi just emailed me with bad news. The company he works for is closing their office down.  He will have no job by the end of this month! I'm going crazy with wedding stress and now this! I'm so sad and don't know what the heck is going to happen now. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Why did he have to email me at work?!!! I want to cry!

csunsweetie

Oh goodness that's not good news at all! And such a short notice!! Hopefully he can find something quickly. What kind of work is he in?

Vans18

csun- I know, they just told them this morning! It's so not good! =( He does criminal background checks and had a graphic designing job on the side, but looks like its also going low on business. This is a big mess for us.

okami.mami

awwww, that really sucks! i'm sorry this had to happen to you guys sending lots of knottie vibes for a quick rebound--------------->>>>>>>>

Melistar85

Oh No Vans!! I really hope he will find something very very soon! I know how stressful it can be. We went through that twice, once Fi & then me. Hang in there guys Everything will be okay. Sending Knottie Vibes your way ******

Vans18

Thanks girls, all we can do is think positive and hopefully everything goes good.

nickknackx

Sorry to hear the bad news Vans. Times are tough right now, it sucks! Especially when you're planning a wedding. It also sucks that he had to email you... maybe he didn't have the heart to tell you the news over the phone. Sending major knottie vibes for a quick recovery{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<3 nic

Khimes7

Oh Vans I'm so sorry! I know it's hard to see it now but everything will work out. My FI lost his job back in January and just recently found something. It was hard for awhile but we made it through a stronger couple. Stay positive and lots of good knottie vibes your way!

dawnbeatty

Vans I'm really sorry to hear that. This is something I'm sure all of worry about because we all probably know someone that this has happend to.  Honey cry - I would.  But try as hard as you can to be strong and supportive for him.  He is going to need you by his side more than ever. knottie vibes going out for you!

uscppg

I am so sorry to hear that.  I know that must be really tough

mrsinoct

Oh - that's really rough - totally sucks.  I'm sorry you have to go through this.  I will send you lots of positive vibes!

lala90

That is terrible! I know it can put a kink in the works. I lost my job this year too and it is tough. I hope he will be able to find something soon. That is too bad you found out while you were at work...but he probably wanted some words of comfort. On the bright side, marriage is all about loving and supporting one another "in good times and in bad." You guys will make it through this and be a stronger couple in the long run. Sending you guys good wishes!!!!!

CANDEE43

Oh, no!  I'm soo sorry to hear that.Ugh it's such a downer to hear these things happen especially when you've been through it too.  My FI got hurt on the job and they fired him because he was out "too long" but it was doctors orders =/he was out for months but got a job 2 months ago, and my work is super slow so we are feeling the struggle too. =[ It'll work out believe me.  I know it's tough but try and stay positive at least they gave him notice and it wasn't just the day of.He was probably so upset and stressed he had to tell you right away.Everything will work out for you 2 stay strong and just be supportive =]

Vans18

Thanks again everyone, your advice and words of support have helped me get through today. I will take your advice and be as supportive as possible. Thanks my fellow knotties

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Good luck with everything! Have him apply for unemployment ASAP. At least the gov't has extended it, and I can't see why he wouldn't qualify.

Summer0fStars

I'm sending good knottie vibes your way!  Hang in there!  I know it's such a rough situation to be in.  My husband's position was deleted from his company 3 months before our wedding after the budget had been set and contracts had been signed.  He had to take a huge pay cut and since I was still in school, it really hurt.  Hope things get better for you guys!

xxquemirasxx

OH NO VANS!!!!! That's terrible! I'm sooooooo sorry this is happening, think positive and hope he finds a job very quickly. Times are tough just hang in there and I'm sure this happened for a reason maybe something better is out for him/ for both of you Knottie vibes your way.

thecheshirekat

Vans, that is so awful!   I'm so sorry - what a load of stress to have to deal with!  Big hugs to the both of you. 

ericaberryy

This happened to us aswell. My fiancee lost his job n July. My mom is helping us with the cost and fiancee was able to go work with my brother, doesnt pay much but its something. Seding good vibes your way....

23sb

Sorry to hear the bad news =( Sending you guys 'lucky get a good paying job quick' vibes your way. I know it's hard. When we postponed, part of it had to do with sucky career stuff that set us back. Don't worry you'll get there. [hugs]

Bella.Vita

I'm so sorry to hear that. These are tough times for so many people right now:( Try to keep your heads up!

julybm08

uggg! I feel your pain! I lost my job 6 months before our wedding it could not find a new job. (I just started my new job 2 weeks after the wedding). It was really tough and I have to admit that I thought we wouldn't be able to make it financially and even thought about postponing the wedding. But we stuck in there, cut out a LOT of extra expenses, and got very creative finding ways to afford everything. In the end it worked out nice since I had so much time off to take care of wedding stuff. Here's my few recommendations: we went to our venue and told them we wre thinking of postponing and they cut about $1000 off our estimate by cutting things here and there. I also did all of my placecards, menus, etc.. all by myself since I had so much time to do it. Put your FI to work! But DO tell him to apply for unemployment asap! It takes several weeks for them to process because you won't get a check until after you have a phone interview with them. They are so far behind right now that it can take a month just to get an apoinmtment. I forgot to send in my weekly "I'm still not working" form during all the wedding chaos and I don't get any of my checks now until they give me another phone interview in late october! i've already started a job and I won't even be able to get my checks for months! Hang in there girl. You'll get through this and you'll find out just how strong your relationship really is.

HEA123

I am so sorry to hear that. I wish your FI blessings. May he find a new job soooooon. Hang in there. It will look up..

[Deleted User]

Sorry you are going through such a stressful time.  I hope things work out and he finds another job.  Best wishes.

veevixxn

Sorry to hear about that vans. Same thing happened to my FI. Luckily, he found work quickly and it's a much better place for him. But I can totally understand your stress and it's just an awful feeling. Definitely let your vendors know that your financial situation has changed. All of them are aware that in this economic climate, a lot of people are out of work. See if they can can help you cut costs in any way. And ditto july on telling him to file for unemployment ASAP and fill out all the paperwork promptly. Hang in there and it will be ok. Things happen for a reason. My husband loves the company he works with - you never know if a better job for your FI will be around the corner.

Lnc0185

I am so sorry to hear that Vans!!!  The good thing is that the timing couldn't be better bc a ton of companys are going to hire seasonal for the holidays and if he does a good job, which I'm sure he will, they should keep him on staff!  A great career can come out of a "temporary" type job!!!