ive been dating my fiancee an and off for 3 years. hes a solider over in iraq defending our country. hes asked me to marry him via skype 2 weeks ago and of corse i said yes (yay!) the problem is he wants me to do all the planning on my own and every time i ask him his oppinion on anything he just says " what ever you want babe" its not just my wedding and i want him to be part of the prosses of planning.
he wants me to take care of all the arrangements... including the engagement party by the time he gets state side. he told me he doesnt want to be bothered with any of the planning and that i should just plan it how i want to. but i dont want him to walk in to this huge barbie wedding ( hot pink, black, and white are the colors i want) and hate it. i want him to help when he gets back from irag but he told me he has enough to be stressed about.
any advice on what i should do?
do i just start planning it how i want to and if he hates it oh well?
do i try to get him to help out and risk one of our war of the worlds fights?
im at a loss.
thanks guys so so so so much in advance