I just got engaged may 28th. And am not having the "Big Day" till 2012. I have already found my dress, picked a venue, and looked at photographers. Problem is most everyone will not sign a contract or even deal with me till next year. Why won' anyone take my money. All I want is to have a stress free wedding, well as less as possible. the sooner I take care of these things the better. Am I crazy for planning ahead?