We're engaged! We have been for a few weeks, but haven't told anyone yet. We've been dating for nearly 10 years (high school sweethearts), and have always said we didn't feel the need to get married. That all changed recently (nothing earth-shattering, just a series of conversations). Needless to say, our close family members are going to be shocked and thrilled.
Every summer for the past 5 years or so, me, my FH, his mother and his sister have a sleep-over at my parents' house. Swimming in the pool, getting sloshed, relaxing in the hot tub - a good time is had by all. I figured this year's get-together in August would be the perfect time to tell everyone that we're engaged. Last week my FSIL (and hopefully MOH) got accepted to a very prestigious master's degree program at a well-know university. We're thrilled for her! However, FSIL's achievement is most likely going to be celebrated to SOME degree at our little family party. Now I'm wondering whether or not we should make our announcement at the sleep-over, since we don't want to steal the spotlight from FSIL (she loves being the center of attention).
Is there a tactful way to allow FSIL to have her toasts and congratulations from my family while still making our announcement? Should we wait for another opportunity to tell everyone? TIA.