My FI and started the planning process about a month ago, but we're having a major disagreement on the style of our wedding.
I would like to have a small (30-40 guests) and simple DW, but he just wants to have a JOP ceremony and be done with it. Any time I ask what his reasoning is behind it he can't give me a reason. I know that he doesn't want to have a lavish, complicated wedding and neither do I, but I've made a DW plan that is simple and extremely budget friendly ($5,000), so it should be no problem.
I want our wedding to be small and simple, but in my opinion, a JOP is insignificant and not special in the way a wedding is. How can I explain to him the significance of a wedding and how special it is for me?
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