So my fiance and I have been dating for two years and we got engaged at the end of March. I love him so very much and I always though I was a really understanding girlfriend. He's a very independent guy and he spends a lot of time with his friends. In general he'll generally spend 3-4 nights a week with his friends. This has never really bothered me and, although I hang out with them on occassion they like gaming and it's just not really my thing. I would rather just do my own thing and let him have his nights.
From time to time though he goes overboard and i'll go 5-6 days sometimes more withough really getting to spend time with him. This week was one of those times and Tuesday night I really just needed him to be there... he wasn't. I brought this up to him and he essentially said "if I'm going to have to ask permission for the rest of my life to do the things I want to do, then I don't want to marry you." Needless to say it hurt. A lot. He doesn't seem to understand why I'm upset and I just don't know what else to tell him.
Could this be his way of trying to break off the engagement? I can't help but think maybe he's regretting proposing to me. I don't know... I guess I'm just venting. I just know I can't go to my mom or anyone for this because if we do end up working things out they'll hold a grudge. Anything will help. I hope.
My Bio: Updated 5/18/11