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Long Time No Post....Major Drama this summer!

Ladies-first time I've been back on here since everything went down in June. long story short--FI broke off engagement in June and I moved out in August. We are back together now, I have my own apt. We are not re-engaged but trying to get back to that point. This came out of nowhere and now I don't know how I feel about him or the situation. I obviously was planning on spending my life with him and up until a month before he told me, he was too. Now we talk about the wedding and the future, its like its unofficially back on. He knows he needs to re-propose and show me he's committed and win me back of sorts. I canceled all our vendors in late July--some of you prolly got our date (6/12/10) with those vendors! We just celebrated our 6 year anniversary and it was also a year since he proposed. anyway, I see alot of new names on here and wanted to give you oldies an update on me--I didn't just drop off the face of the knot!

Re: Long Time No Post....Major Drama this summer!

  • jen90210jen90210 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Welcome back! I hope everything works out for you!-Jenny
  • edited December 2011
    hi! i am new to you and you are new to me! i hope you take things slow and work on your relationship. it sounds like you really both love eachother dearly if you are back for another try. strong hearts!
  • edited December 2011
    Welcome back; I hope everything works out for you guys :-)
  • edited December 2011
    Welcome back!  I was wondering what happened to you.  I hope everything works out for you.  Are you back on the June 10 board too?

    "Everything will be alright in the end. So if it's not alright, it is not yet the end."
    "She wasn't bitter. She was sad, though. But it was a hopeful kind of sad. The kind of sad that just takes time." The Perks of Being a Wallflower
    Me:28 DH:28 TTC since 1/11 Dx: unexplained IF/early DOR
    Feb'12- Clomid/TI with CD3 &21 labs(normal)& SA-count 6mil/ml,morph/motil OK-BFN
    April'12 Ultrasounds,HSG -clear, slight acurate uterus
    5/14 IUI #1-50 mg clomid-post wash total motile count 19.3 prometrium 2dpiui= BFN
    6/11-IUI #2-100 mg clomid & prometrium post wash count total motile 17.5 = BFN
    7/6 IUI#3 with 100 mg clomid, estridiol, prometrium. post wash total motile count 23.3 = BFN
    8/30IVF#1 BCPs, Follistim, Menopur,Ganerelix,Novarel.
    ER 9/11-8R, 7M, 5F.
    ET 9/14 2 embies transferred. 1 10cell Grade 4, 1 8cell Grade 4. No frosties. BFN
    IVF#2 BCPs, Follistim, Menopur, Ganerelix, Novarel, Baby Aspirin
    ER 12/5-16R, 12M, 8F!
    ET 12/10 5dt! 1 fully expanded blast & 1 early blast. No frosties. BFN
    2/13- Saline sono revealed a polyp. All additional labwork coming back normal. Genetic screen revealed DH has MTHFR deficiency & I am a carrier for it.
    3/13 hysteroscopy & polypectomy
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  • edited December 2011
    Welcome back fellow Navy and Green Knottie! I hope everything goes well!
    Steph & Brandon 4.17.10
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  • edited December 2011
    Hi MrsPaps, Welcome back. I can only imagine the devastation you went through when he broke off your engagement. Your messages are mixed in the post, I can tell you are conflicted. Just curious, have you ever visited this site? www.theregoesthebride.com   if not, you should.. because of the statements below. This came out of nowhere and now I don't know how I feel about him or the situation. This statement is a big red flag to me. Then you go on to say you talk about the wedding and the future and it's like the wedding is unofficially back on???? Sweetie, If you don't know how you feel about him or the situation you clearly need more time. This is not all about him, its about you. I don't mean to by cynical, (ok I guess I do) but I would have to be alone for a long time and figure out what I wanted before I'd entertain the idea of marriage to someone who broke my heart into a million pieces just 4 months ago. Did you have a period of no contact with him so you could figure out what you wanted? I would let him know in no uncertain terms that the wedding is not back on until you decide if it is him you want to be with. He walked out on you after 5 years or so of being together, (HUGE RED FLAG)  are you sure he won't walk again? He is clearly conflicted about marrying you. He knows he needs to re-propose and show me he's committed and win me back of sorts.  He needs to win you back so you have absolutely no question in your mind whatsoever that this is the man you want to be with. Problems don't get better with marrriage, they just become permanent. For whatever reason he walked, hopefully you are absolutely CERTAIN it won't happen again before YOU COMMIT to him. Best of luck to you.
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