Thanks again girls for all your advice!! I just wanted to update everyone since you were all so helpful

I called our photographer (Aaron Bernard, Liquid Light Images) last week and explained that we were dissapointed with the pictures we received. I think he was shocked and tried to explain that he can't guarantee candid shots or details and that the weather was to blame (which confused me since it stopped raining an hour before the ceremony and never rained for the rest of the night.) He also said that he and his wife were not arguing throughout the day, thats just the way they talk to each other and insisted he took the most of the shots I wanted (candids, ring in ring dish, wide shot of the tent/ceremony, us with marraige cert, etc)... but they turned into corrupted files.
Ugh, basically, he said he gave us everything he had and that he can look through his pictures and see what else he can send me, but there are probably only about 200 that would be useable. Also, since it was dark (we had an outside wedding) a lot of things are blurry. I told him I would take anything since there was so much missing!! We'll see what he comes up with, I'm just so bummed that things didnt turn out better as we went over everything so many times and he was so agreeable.... sigh.