I had locked in a private rental house to hold my ceremony and reception. Initially the owner had said it was fine. Then I had the DOC call to take a look at the space for me (specifically the backyard since I hadn't seen it for myself). Anyways, she just emailed me that upon discussion with the owner of the house, he would prefer it if we did our reception at another location! I'm crushed. I was really looking forward to having an intimate setting in the same location as where we were staying and where the ceremony was. I didn't want to worry about transporting anyone, paying separate fees for different locations, etc. It was just easier and cheaper. What do I do?? We're estimated approx. 30-50 guest with about 10 of those being children. Our other guests have put deposits on other houses near that house already and everything. I feel like my plans are falling apart. Thanks for listening to me rant. If anyone has any other locations ideas, please let me know. I do have time but we are on a very tight budget. And my FI is SET on doing it on the North Shore of Oahu. Thanks Ladies. = (