I have been looking at your posts and stuff and I think we have similar situations! Form what I get you are from AZ and your FI is from Oregon, and the same goes with us I am from AZ and my FI is from Oregon. We live in Oregon, but I just thought it was cool we are both doing weddings in Hawaii and we have a lot of similarities! I had the same worries about the "bad eggs" at the Bachelor Party but don't worry, it will be ok, you'll get through it! I know how you feel though I dislike the idea of strippers at the Bach party so much!!! Anyways, have a great day!