Would it be weird...

aliblu · September 2009

If I had 2 MOH? Or, none at all? I dont have any sisters, and I have 2 best friends, who I love equally! How do you pick? I dont want any feelings hurt and I know they both think they are going to be my MOH! HELP!

mauidandy · September 2009

I have 2 MOHs!! I had the same struggle, I couldn't choose....so my best friend and my sister are sharing the title. Now I think FI is going to have two Best Men, because he couldn't choose either and he loved my idea.It's your wedding! Do what you want to do! I'm sure they would both be honored.

A.a.A. · September 2009

it's not weird!! I also have no sisters, and 2 bffs that i love equally. Luckily one is married and one is not, so I can have a Maid and Matron of Honor! It can be a hard job, so I think it makes it easier when there's two

It's your wedding, do what YOU want! People will respect that, especially if they are your friends

carrieoz_76 · September 2009

You do what you want. I have 3 BM, no MOH; you could have 2 MOH, no BM. I have three bff's and I didn't want to pick amongst them for one who's most special, so I didn't. They did ask me who I wanted to do things like plan a shower/bparty. I said if they decided to do that stuff, that's great, and we talked about who would be most able to do it. Mine are also friends with each other, so I don't think they'll have difficulty communicating. I just think you need to know who you want to do basic stuff, in case they ask (stand next to you, sign the license, plan parties, stuff like tha). You can determine these things randomly, and/or talk to them about what they want to do, and what works best for them.

kaesha · September 2009

I don't think that's weird. I only had two BMs (who are sisters) so there's no way I could choose!

kjane12 · September 2009

I am having two MOH's, too. No other bridesmaids though. The harder part is picking the order of march. Which one walks first/last? It could be their age, name, height, or how long you've known each. I'm sure it won't matter.

fia214 · September 2009

Not weird at all! It's your wedding do what you want.

BoBride28 · September 2009

Both of my sisters are my MOH (actually one is matron of honor, the other is maid). FI is having his brother and his best friend be his best men. When my sis got married, my other sister and I were both her maid of honor. You really can do it however you like!