Sorry things didn't turn out for you. Hopefully the vendors who let you down weren't ones that the girls here use on a regular basis. It's always a disappointment when that happens. And, as for your comment about Hawaiian weddings not being special, well, again, I'm sorry if you felt like your day wasn't special. I think just about all of the girls on the board here have had really positive experiences and not felt like they were just a number. The vendors I worked with were all super professional (most went well above and beyond) and I don't think it's fair to generalize everyone who works in the Hawaiian wedding industry there as not having a good work ethic or being uncaring. But, please post your reviews of individual vendors over on the Knot's sister site the Wedding Channel.FWIW, the 10 pm curfew is pretty standard across the islands though - especially in the outdoor locations. Out of consideration for the 98% of people on the islands who don't want to hear wedding music every night, I can understand why they do it. And, I can also understand not having children in a nightclub after 10 pm either.