Hi! I wanted to respond to your question about the parasols...
Guests loved them, but they didn't take them home for whatever reason, maybe b/c almost all guests had to get on an airplane, or maybe they didn't know they could have them. I would definitely get them again if I had to do it all over again.
I ended up just giving the parasols to my WC, Lori Lawrence on Maui--and I think you're an Oahu, bride, right? So they probably wouldn't be very useful to you. But I got them for a reasonable price from Oriental Trading Company.
The basket was Lori's that she let me borrow.
HTH!