Hi there Knotties!
We are planning far in advanced too due to graduate degrees and hopes of having jobs.
Our current plan is to have a small 11 person (immediate family only) wedding in Seattle, then have a large (probably 200 person) reception in our hometown.
I am glad I am not the only one on this board worried about when i should buy the dress... the rings... find the large house we will stay in... and the bakery we will order our family post wedding breakfast from...
I keep having to remind myself there is time for everything to change and at the same time I want to get eveything done so I do not have to wrry about it.