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How are you sending out RD invites?

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Are you sending them with your actual wedding invite? How are you handling Rehearsal Dinner RSVPs?
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Re: How are you sending out RD invites?

  • LittleSweetieLittleSweetie member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm cheap and wanted to save postage, so they were a 4th (5th?) insert in our wedding invitations.  Probably not etiquette, but I didn't care.  We just did RSVPs by word of mouth/phone/email.
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  • jtothelee216jtothelee216 member
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    edited December 2011
    I printed off separate wedding invitations for those invited to the RD.  Ours are a booklet style invite, so the first page was the RD invite for those invited. 
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  • jtothelee216jtothelee216 member
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    edited December 2011
    Forgot to answer your question about RSVP's -- I just listed my email and phone number -- but, I pretty much know already who is attending and who's not.
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  • hkieslinghkiesling member
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    edited December 2011
    We just included a seperate page in our invite.  Since almost everyone was from out of town, we knew they'd all be there. 
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  • dc*prepdc*prep
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    edited December 2011
    FI's mom is going to mail them. I think she kind of liked the idea of sending them, because it gives her an opportunity to be more involved in the wedding.

    We want our RD to be more laid-back and casual than our wedding, so we wanted our RD invitations to reflect that different style.

    We're not inviting EVERYONE from OOT -- pretty much our wedding party and their dates, as well as ceremony readers, etc. So for RSVP, we said, "Regrets only to Mary K at (814)..."
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  • amberh0515amberh0515 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm doing seperate invites and putting my number for regrets. We're only inviting people who are in the wedding party and grandparents...no other OOT
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  • wittyschaffywittyschaffy member
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    edited December 2011
    I made separate invites for the RD.  They had to RSVP and let us know their meal choice.
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  • kclepirekclepire
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    edited December 2011
    We are doing a seperate invite which I designed and will print.  Then MIL will send them out to let her feel involved.  We didn't put any RSVP on the invite.  We are only doing WP at the dinner and we talk to them regularlly and will know if they are coming or not. 
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  • LolaBelle515LolaBelle515 member
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    edited December 2011
    We actually just sent an email out.  I think it depends on the style you're looking for--but we're doing a taco bar at FI's parents' house, so there's nothing wrong with a simple email invite if you are looking for a different option!
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