So I never posted on this post but I read about people not putting their names on response cards...and I thought...people really aren't that dumb...i mean most of my guests are educated enough to know this right!? WRONG...I jinxed myself because yesterday I got TWO in the mail with NO NAMES!! One was a decline the other an accept...we think we know who the decline was because it came from NC and we only have a few guests from NC so that was easy...they other one...i guess the process of elimination will help! I should have used a UV pen! Genius!!