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VENT (just need to get it out) long

Well I have posted on here before that I don't think highly of my brothers fiance. About a month ago or so I got a text from my brother saying that he broke it off with his fiance (K) and that it felt wonderful. I was happy to hear it because ever since they got engaged my brothers personality dissapeared. Everytime we talked it didnt seem like I was talking to my brother.
Anyway, i told him that he had to do what he needed to. So, through my mom I heard that K still wanted to be friends and my brother said fine we'll try it. Well they hang out as much now as they did when they were engaged. I just don't understand. Though I have noticed that they are doing everything he likes to do. It like she is trying to keep on his good side so he will want to get back together. I just look at it as you broke it off because she was smothering you, so why would you want to spend the same amount of time together!!
I guess I just don't understand. ahhhhhhh

Sorry had to get it out because no one else would listen.

Re: VENT (just need to get it out) long

  • edited December 2011
    Ok...my brother had an awful girlfriend for a few years.  She started off awesome and then it completely deteriorated.  She was manipulative and starving for attention, and I saw the same thing happen to his personality.  She did something completely dispicable and unspeakable at one point that not only affected my brother but the entire family.  It was so shameful that only a small handful of people know about it.  I have never ever been so furious with a person in my entire life.  But that wasn't even enough to end it.  I don't get it with guys.  It took my brother getting hit by a car and her basically calling him an idiot while he laid there in a hospital bed to realize that the relationship was beyond toxic.  He ended it, but they still end up going to the movies and talking and whatnot.  It drives me crazy, but I think he still realizes she's not the one for him.  That's all I can hope and pray for. Hopefully your brother will come around, but it takes time for them.  Good luck! I know how much it sucks.
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