Poll: Your FI/Husband

LovesPink927

If you could change one thing about him, what would it be??

LISA R

Nothing! Even the little annoying habits that he has. Thats what makes him who he is.

eclipsethecat

Lisa is too nice and hoping for good wedding gifts I think.I wish Kevin was a little sweeter and more surprising, like bringing me flowers etc. But that is just something little and I am used to being spoiled

LovesPink927

Lisa, that is very true...but there are days I just want to smack Chris! :)Shelby-I really wish Chris would do things like that too.  I honestly don't know if that guy has a romantic bone in his body!

boogerbearoriginal

Lisa - you are too nice, its not healthy! j/kI just wish FI would figure out what he wants to be when he grows up, he has a good job right now but he's not happy there. He wants to go back to school but isn't sure what to do with himself in school. 

eclipsethecat

Kelly, UGH! I know! I think it is mostly because my parents and exes ALWAYS used to spoil me with flowers, or stuffed animals etc. I think he just forgets how happy a bouquet of flowers makes me- even if they are just carnations!

jujubee455

that he had a more normal schedule... I hate the fact that he will stay up really late and get no sleep for days, for no reason... its not like he has a job that requires wierd hours. He just chooses to not sleep like he should. And I NEED my sleep, so he can't understand when im all like I need to go to bed, and I can't understand why doesn't understand that. Also... right now... I wish he would find a job that he loves!

festivegal2008

That he would leave the past where it belongs and never bring it up again.  Especially our separate pasts that occurred before we met.  He has a bad habit of doing that...

corinne2010

There's a few minor things that I would change, but the major thing is I wish he would stop smoking! He's tried a few times, and even tried Chantix. That worked for a while, but he got lazy with it. By now I'm used to it and he doesn't smoke in the house anymore. That was one rule I made very clear when moving in with him...I don't smoke so I don't want everything I own smelling like it! He'll quit eventually, or he doesn't get kids

leeshab1982

I would make him more organized.  He never has any idea where things are and is constantly asking me where certain shoes or clothes or hats are.  Drives me nuts! 

zawa0915

I wish he would finish projects when he starts them...e.g. will unpack all the groceries but then leave the non-refridgerated stuff and all the bags in the kitchen. Hard to get mad when I know he's trying to help...just gets sidetracked easily, I think!

Jacks21583

I wish he wouldn't b*tch and complain about getting dressed up. I love his laid-back nature, and he looks super cute in cargos, flip-flops and a tee. but that's just not always appropriate.

LISA R

Seriously though. I give him credit for dealing with me. I can be a real biotch and pain in the butt sometimes (well all the time) so I think that evens it out. He does bring me flowers, and perfumes, and silly little things like baking me heart shaped cookies. He comes home from work and fixes dinner when I am home and can do it. I hate cooking. lol I could go on and on and no he isn't perfect and smartazz at times but I still love it all.

zawa0915

jacks i hear you there. DH thinks crocs are the all-purpose footwear. ugh!

thecatsfancy

I wish Brian didn't completely shut down emotionally when I'm upset about something.  It became his defensive mechanism after working 6.5 years on Geek Squad and getting yelled at daily by pissed off customers.  I understand that (really I do), but it really feels like he doesn't care that I'm upset. 

jessimaphone

He's really Alpha Male Dominant/Control Freak. Drives me crazy.

ksunquest

I'm with Zawa. DH has an inability to complete projects. drives. me.crazy! also, he is messy and I am tired of cleaning the same damn room 10 times a week.

LovesPink927

The second FI gets mad, he acts like a 5 year old.  He will throw a fit or become silent and not speak and just have a mad face.  It's the most annoying thing in the world!   

elizabeth04925

Matt plays the devils advocate all. the. time. It drives me NUTS! Sometimes, I don't want to see someone elses perspective!

brusz1lm

lol elizabeth I totally feel you on that one---I would pick his messiness/sloppiness the other day we got a take out and he just through his container on the floor--seriously the garbage is 10 feet from you??