invite someone to the bachelorette party and not invite them to the shower?
I'm having a hard time cutting down the guest list for my shower, basically the only people on the list are aunts, cousins and friends but that is still 85 people. If I can't cut the list down does anyone have a suggestion of inexpensive places to have the shower? I checked out Buddy's (my maid of honor is going to look into this more) and it's about $11 per person not including drinks and the 18% required gratuity. I didn't think it was that bad of a price but not sure if Buddy's has room for about 60 people (assuming at least 30% don't come) and my mom thinks it is too expensive. Any thoughts or advise? I know I'm not supposed to plan the shower myself but my mom got all frustrated last night and told me to do what I want and send her the bill, which isn't a good sign either.
Did anyone else have a ton of stress over the shower?
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