Another Sex Poll: How Often Do you....

LISA R

How often do you snuggle without it leading to sex?

Another RedBook poll.

boogerbearoriginal

Hmmm, several times a week. We have a pretty snuggley relationship. We cuddle on the couch a lot watching tv.

thecatsfancy

Ummm...every night.  I can't fall asleep without cuddling. 

Julz629

Not as often since we got a dog.  LOL, do I sound like a new mom, or what?  The dog isn't allowed on the furniture so if we are cuddling, he will try to jump up with us....  One of us (read: me) is usually on the ground playing with him.

In bed, we'll always cuddle for a few minutes when we first get in bed, regardless of whether or not it leads to sex.  However, when we sleep, we sleep back to back -- I wonder what that says about us!!

corinne2010

I am honestly not a big cuddler. When we watch TV, I really just like to be left alone. But almost always FI comes to bed after me and he cuddles with me while I sleep. I sometimes don't remember it the next morning, but I know he does it. I also like to cuddle with him in the morning. So, to answer the question we cuddle multiple times a week without it leading to sex.

l&bbaby

We snuggle all the time .

k-nem

FI and I are both really clingy (in the best sense LOL) with each other so we actually cuddle a ton. I gotta say though, as a cuddle connoisseur, you can usually tell from the beginning that its one of those cuddles

cmkuno

We cuddle just about every night and every morning in bed.  Sometimes on the couch while we're watching TV too.  So many times each week we cuddle and it doesn't lead to sex.  In fact, I don't think it's our cuddling that leads to sex at all.  I think we cuddle just because we like to.  If we're in the mood for something more, we usually just go straight to making out.

sunkissed212

We snuggle every night when we get in bed. But when it's time to really get down to falling asleep...I have to roll over and have my own space. I can't fall asleep "snuggled".

We cuddle on the couch often too (when I don't have the laptop or the cat on my lap), sometimes it leads to more, sometimes it doesn't lol

thecatsfancy

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[QUOTE]We cuddle just about every night and every morning in bed.  Sometimes on the couch while we're watching TV too.  So many times each week we cuddle and it doesn't lead to sex.  In fact, I don't think it's our cuddling that leads to sex at all.  I think we cuddle just because we like to.  If we're in the mood for something more, we usually just go straight to making out. ;)
Posted by cmkuno[/QUOTE]

THIS!!  

Our cuddle-time very rarely leads to more.  We cuddle because we love to...we are both very affectionate and crave physical touch.  If are near each other, it's a safe bet that we are holding hands.

cristinald

every night - it's how we fall asleep.  we roll away once we're asleep, but we both seem to need the contact. 

LISA R

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[QUOTE]Not as often since we got a dog.  LOL, do I sound like a new mom, or what?  The dog isn't allowed on the furniture so if we are cuddling, he will try to jump up with us....  One of us (read: me) is usually on the ground playing with him. In bed, we'll always cuddle for a few minutes when we first get in bed, regardless of whether or not it leads to sex.  However, when we sleep, we sleep back to back -- I wonder what that says about us!!
Posted by jholbel[/QUOTE]

Sounds like us. When we try to cuddle, baby jumps in the middle. We also sleep back to back, I cannot sleep if he's touching me.

brobin01

We cuddle a few times a week and watch a movie. FI is a hUGE cuddler. I like to cuddle, but not when I am trying to sleep.He pulls me closer to him EVERYnight, but I eventually crawl myself out of the cuddle and commense to sleeping wild. LOL

thecatsfancy

I am cracking up at "crawl myself out of the cuddle and commense to sleeping wild"!! 

Only you, Brandi...only you.

katiebird1981

We cuddle a couple times a week, but I can only take it for so long.  I sleep on my stomach and if he's on me or right next to me, I start sweating profusely.  However, I can't fall asleep unless my hand is touching him in someway...if that makes any sense.  I need to know he's there when I'm sleeping.  It makes me feel safe.

ms nobody

FI is a snuggle fanatic. if it always lead to sex i think i'd be broken lol.

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Every day! I am a major cuddler, and depending on the day so is FI.

Melgor78

Almost everynight we snuggle in bed and depending on how tired we are, we either fall asleep or not.  I like other ppl I can't sleep snuggling, usually I'll wake up and have to roll over and sleep with my back to fi.  We use to have to snuggling when slept because we had a small bed and really didn't have a choice.  I'm so gald we have a king size bed now!

klreese0213

My FI and I cuddle a few times a week, not every night, but that's because we don't always go to bed together. if we go to bed together we tickle, laugh and snuggle a little. My FI isn't a very affectionate person. We have actually always slept with our own blankets LOL... and that's per my decision. i hate sharing blankets... i like to be completely snuggled in, blankets tucked all the way around me.. but like Katie, i need to also touch him throughout the night, every night. I need to know he's there, and i feel safer and sleep better when i know he's there. The only time cuddling leads to sex is if we're snuggling super closer 1/2 way through the night- idk why.. it just does lol

Gwenwhyfare

We snuggle pretty much every day, except in the morning. FI has what I call dragon breathe..But, other than that we cuddle when watching tv/movies and before bed.

thecatsfancy

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[QUOTE]FI is a snuggle fanatic. if it always lead to sex i think i'd be broken lol.
Posted by ms nobody[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the laugh, Patrice!

k-nem

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[QUOTE]We cuddle a couple times a week, but I can only take it for so long.  I sleep on my stomach and if he's on me or right next to me, I start sweating profusely.  However, I can't fall asleep unless my hand is touching him in someway...if that makes any sense.  I need to know he's there when I'm sleeping.  It makes me feel safe.
Posted by katiebird1981[/QUOTE]

This is FI. He needs to fall asleep touching me, even if it's just a hand brushing on my hip or shoulder. He can't sleep unless he's sure I'm next to him; he has the worst time falling asleep when I'm away from home.