I kid you NOT, this was a facebook friend request.

emily1004

Dan says, "Hey Emily! Just noticed that we weren't friends. Thought I should fix that. Also, just curious cause I don't want to intrude, but am I invited to your wedding next week? Been trying to get hold of Jason, but he's been busy working I imagine. If not, not offended, no worries. I'm happy for you two either way .".

According to FI usher, this person knows he's not invited and is just trying to make things uncomfortable. I've met him twice in my life! FI thinks he's a d-bag. He knows him from college. I don't need this crap a week before my wedding! Who does this? Why are people so insanely rude?!?!

Mrs.Kohalic17

wtf!! what a creeper!! ewwww!

Julz629

Um, ignore.  And claim you were so busy with the wedding that you didn't have time to check FB if someone asks.

mybestfriendsfuturemrs

Yea, I would ignore it as well. Don't even respond.


Crazy a$$ people!

SonaliPop

Don't even bother responding. How rude of him!

*Rebecca and Chris*

What an idiot.  I would respond and tell him that he isn't invited.  If he is rude enough to send this message to you, he just may be rude enough to try and show up.  It isn't likely, but you might as well just write him a quick note saying "Sorry that you weren't invited, due to budget and space constraints we weren't able to invite everyone that we would have liked."  Sounds nicer than "Sorry, you are an a$$ and we don't like you and never in a million years would have invited you, thanks for asking though.

queenfm85

Haaa I had something similar happen to me but not as bad I suppose. I had this "best friend" in high school and maybe the year after as well (04/05). After she graduated HS she got pregnant, went on drugs, ended up in jail etc. I stopped talking to her because I don't want to get involved in that kind of thing. I deleted my Myspace a LONG time ago which was the only time I ever came in contact with her. Ive seen her maybe like 2x in the past 2-3 years. Its been like about a year and a half since I heard from her and she requests me on FB. Find out she's dating a 17 y/o (shes 23) and has TWO kids now.

She instant messages me on FB and asks if she's invited to my wedding because we WERE best friends in HS. WHAT?! Uhm NO! I felt bad but I just told her that we're paying for it ourselves and are really limited to family and very few friends (which is true!).

Is that wrong?

MeghanAshley00

I would be so tempted to write something snarky back... especially since he's made it known that he's trying to make things uncomfortable. What a d-bag.

I'd probably just ignore it though - you don't need any additional drama from this a$s

boogerbearoriginal

Wow that's just lovely. I'd just hit the ignore button - he's not worth the drama. Or send him a message back like what Rebecca suggested something vague and polite.

LISA R

That is way creepy

JUJURERE

That is creepy, ignore it cause it might pop up again another thing is you can go into settings and make everything just so that some friends can see it you can make your facebook very private.