Has anyone else noticed that some of your unhappily married friends and unmarried but in long term relationship friends have just gotten overly dramatic with you. Since early on in my engagement I keep having issues with 2 of my friends and I just don't get it. One of my friends has been in a relationship for over 10 years and they are not engaged. When my FI and I got engaged her attitude totally changed. She lives out in Long Island and we don't get to see each other very often but when she comes home from time to time we usually try to get together. So I called her and I was like.. Oh man I miss you I feel like I haven't seen you in forever. Well BIG mistake. She flipped out on me. She went on about how she was home and I didn't come see her. So I said when were you home (she didn't call me). She said she was home Christmas Eve and Christmas day then went back home. Since we just got engaged both of us had a ton of our family come in from Texas and California to see us and have an engagement party. So not for nothing I wasn't going to not see family that I haven't seen in 2 years but I apologized. A couple of other things happened and I decided not to invite her to the wedding. Partly because she said she didn't want to go and partly because I really didn't want to deal with the drama. (She doesn't think my FI and I should be getting married b/c we haven't been together long enough according to her) So when she didn't get her save the date and saw that our mutual friend got hers she flipped out. So our mutual friend talked to her about how she has been behaving and she was like OMG I didn't realize how I was acting. So to avoid anymore drama I sent her a save the date. So everything has been fine up until today. I sent her a stupid little app. request on facebook and she flipped out! She wrote a whole post about it and everything!!! I don't get it. It's insane. It was just an app request! Ignore it if you don't want it. LOL. My other friend is not happy in her marriage and ever since I got engaged it's been crazy. So as I was running some errands I called her to chit chat like we usually do. Well I arrived at our photographers after a 45 minute drive and I told her that I had to go but I would call her when I was done. Which I did. Everything was fine. At least that's what I thought. About 3 days later I got a HUGE e-mail complaining that I hung up on her and how dare I etc. It just went on and on. My FI has MS and she went on to say how I was dumb to marry someone who is sick b/c I will be taking care of him for the rest of my life. So needless to say I didn't take that very lightly. She eventually apologized but I haven't fully been able to get over it. Anyway... I was just wondering if anyone else is having some friends who have totally gone nuts. LOL.