I have this close girlfriend of mine that got engaged 2 months before I did and is planning her wedding 2 months before mine. Her parents and her fiance's parents are paying for their wedding, but my fiance and I are saving up for our own wedding. I like more simplistic and modern looks, while she is going for a more traditional Italian wedding. Anyways the issue is that I feel like she is trying to make our weddings a competition. She asked me my colors, and was upset that we have the same color scheme (I didn't know this!). I don't think it really matters, because we are going for a completely different look. I just ordered my wedding dress, and she asked to see a picture... instead of a compliment she said "Oh no! The dress I like is the same style as yours. I guess I can't get it now!" I told her if you love the dress get it, because the dress she likes has more beading and detail than mine. Plus are bodies are shaped differently, so it won't look the same. Her and her fiance make can't seem to compromise or make any committed decisions about their wedding and plans keep changing. While my fiance and I have already picked a date, church, and reception site. She commented that I should wait before making those decisions. I don't need to explain myself to her, but my fiance and I are having a lot of fun with our wedding plans. I am not sure if she is acting this way out of jealousy or what. I am trying to stay cool, calm, and collected because it's not worth losing a friend over. Although, I can't help but wonder if our future kids will be a competition to her as well.