Did all you girls who wore a mermaid/trumpet gown wear one? I have one to go with my gown but when I just tried it on with it OMGosh its sooo tight! It almost makes it seem like I can't breathe...and I still need my gown to be altered in my hip area so I can't imagine how much tighter it would be. WIthout it, its just as nice just not as fluffed on the bottom. I was thinking I can ask the seamstress to sew the tulle from the crinoline to the dress that way I get to wear it sorta...What do you think?