We finally have all of our RSVP's in for our wedding next week! Granted this was one of the biggest ordeals thus far, it's all paying off. We invited 175+ and 150 are coming. Now my question is, I have a few friends and family that have been known to flake out at the last minute....Do I double check with them that they are still coming or just wait and see? Also when I asked my FI's father to get in touch with his friends who didn't RSVP- He called back & said 9 people plus the wife & I. I had to call back because I obviously need names for placecards, etc & he gave me the names of 4 more additional people we NEVER even sent invites too! Aaah.Now to attempt a seating chart.