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Isn't it too soon for wedding nightmares?

I'm not even at the 6 month mark and last night I had the worst wedding nightmare... litterally everything went wrong!!!
I think I'm still having heart palpatations from this one :(
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Re: Isn't it too soon for wedding nightmares?

  • edited December 2011
    I literally have those every couple weeks...and have been having them for 3 or 4 months now!  They're the WORST!!  I can't imagine what they'll be like right before the wedding...stressful!
  • edited December 2011
    im not getting married til next july and i have had 4 or 5 already....one about my dress, one abuot my flowers (lack of ordering them), venue changes I didn't know about, not buying shoes??
  • edited December 2011

    I had more further away from the date then closer.  I think bc now I have more things settled down, I'm less worried.  I'm sure they'll come back soon as things get crazy tho!

  • mandac033mandac033 member
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    edited December 2011
    I have them all the time! It's so weird because they seem so real! It's so crazy!
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    edited December 2011
    I have them a lot too.  Sometimes they are wedding dreams and everything is lovely.  Sometimes everything goes wrong.  I found my dress 27 months before our wedding date, and started having dreams about it right away.  2 months later I ordered it.  Hahaha...  :)

    It's normal.  Just funny how our mind messes with us!
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  • edited December 2011
    I have them all the time and I am 7 months out. last night I dreamt 200 ppl rsvp'd and we paid for 200 ppl but only 30 showed up. It was embarassing and the lamest wedding ever. No one was on the dance floor.
  • edited December 2011
    I actually had them just before we got engaged, they got really bad after we got engaged and have now leveled out a bit.
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  • edited December 2011
    I had A LOT when it was about 6-8 months out - Now, it's not happening so much. Which is REALLY good
  • Shazzie116Shazzie116 member
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    edited December 2011
    I started getting them a year out, then about 6 months out, then 3 months out. It usually happened when things were at their busiest in the planning. It usually made me laugh because I consistently dreamt of getting married in my pajamas. 
  • edited December 2011
    Along the same lines Ekobs and Mandah...I had a lot of nightmares and around the 6-3 month mark they slowly stopped.  So I think it's totally normal to have them further out because so much is up in the air!

    One of my fav nightmares was I had our wedding at Macy's, my dress was pink (even though everyone tried to tell me it was white) and P. Diddy made me cry--- ya jerk!
  • penname11penname11 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, I haven't had one of those in a while, but I had one last night (I forgot to book hair and makeup people - the horror!), and I swear that I feel totally unrested because my dream was sooooo stressful. 
  • edited December 2011
    I've been having a hard time falling asleep at night because I just lay there thinking about all of the little details and what I have left on my to-do list this month. (My type A personality made me not only have a to-do list, but to break all of the projects down by month). I have a few nightmares every now and then, and typically I'm not prepared, don't have my dress, etc. They are the worst!
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