Wedding Etiquette Forum

Not invited to 2nd reception?

Having been Mother-of-the-Groom three times already, now that my dauther is getting married, I've tried very hard to include her future in-laws on as much of the planning and celebrating as possible.  We have a morning wedding and lunch reception planned in our own garden with about 260 people invited.  I have checked several times with them for additional names for the list and have been reassured they have invited all they need to.
 
Now with only 6 weeks to go I learn that they are hosting a second reception the evening of the wedding. . . and not inviting us.  Should I be offended?  Get over it?  Say something?  What is my place in this matter?  My daughter sees nothing wrong with the whole thing but I feel we're missing out on part of her special day.
 
Jaycee's Mom
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