I mailed out my invites a week ago and already got some replys back. One was from a family where we had sent both of the daughters their own invites, since they are over 18. We also invited the one girls boyfriend. (Maybe FI. They're my FI's friends so I don't know.) When we got the reply, the parents just sent back one reply card with all of their names on it. (Minus the boyfriend.) I figured they just found it easier and shrugged it off. Then yesterday, I got a few invites returned because the addresses were messed up. Two of them were the daughters' invites. (Excell doesn't like to copy numbers and it made them sequential and I didn't notice when I was coping them.)
Should I send back the girls' invites? They've already rsvped, (and I totally side-eye them since now I know that they didn't know we had planned to invite the girls.) I don't want them to feel too badly about adding people and feeling like we sent the other invites because of that. Should I add a note saying something like "oopps, wrote the address wrong, sorry these are late."?
However, I am out of invites and my grandparents just added another couple. I've already had to print up a few extra invites on my printer, but this man is the president of the bank that my grandfather is a trustee or something of. My grandfater is also their lawyer. So I would feel a little weird sending them one without the raised type and inner envelope.