I'm so irritated with my matron of honor. She keeps bringing up wedding talk when we're with some other bridesmaids, I've tried bean dipping and flat out saying that I don't want to talk about wedding stuff and she just wont let it go! Mainly what's being brought up is the bachelorette party, one girl will ask me what I would find fun and moh will jump down my throat and express how she will not leave her 9mo. Old overnight and will not stay out past midnight, though never did I say she had to ever! She keeps telling the other bridesmaids that it isn't their job to plan it since they are not the moh and they need to stay out of it which really upsets me because, like I mentioned to them, is that there is no written handbook that says moh must plan Bachparty and that if nobody plans it then I don't have one. Which is now what I'm affraid is going to happen. Moh refuses to do pretty much anything without her 9mo. Old and has even expressed that she'll probably be present for the bachelorette party until later in the evening. I'm at a loss of what to do. I know the other girls really want to plan something as they've expressed to me but they don't want to step on moh toes being that she has already told them off about planning once. I'd hate to decline a Bachelorette party but as of now, I feel like that's all I can do.
What makes matters worse is that I was her moh and gave her a stress free bachelorette party that she loved and this is how she's treated me through my entire engagement.
Sorry in advance for not spacing out my paragraphs, I'm using tk mobile.
Also, moh is not breast feeding. She is also about 8wks pregnant with her second if that has any relevance.
