Wedding Etiquette Forum

If the bridesmaids are throwing the shower, do they still bring a gift?

I'm getting mixed answers about this. There are five of us in the wedding party and we are sharing the responsibility of throwing the shower. The shower is at a hotel and the bride booked the room and is footing the bill for that. We are bringing the food, beverages, alcohol, games, favors, etc. The parking is also costing us $40.00 per vehicle. I have not gotten a gift yet and I was wondering if it would be proper to just give a wedding gift instead of giving a wedding gift and a shower gift? I am worried that it will look bad, though, because we are only having 10 people attend the shower. (That's the five in the wedding party plus five additional people). Would it be poor etiquette to not bring a gift to the shower?
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