Hello! I'm getting married in June in Mexico and I'm getting ready to send out my save the dates but I wanted to get some opinions on how I should address them. Should I include the guest on the save the date or should that just be on the invitation? For my guests that have significant others, I'm writing both of their names.. but I'm not sure what to do for the single people who are allowed to bring a guest. Next question, should I always write the male's name first when addressing a couple? For example, say I'm inviting my friend Annie and her husband Scott who I met a few times. Would I still put his name first even though she's the one I'm friends with? Last question.. this isn't really an etiquette question, but I wanted to get a few opinions on this. My save the date's are postcard style since it's a destination wedding. I'm sending them out in envelopes so they don't get lost or ruined in the mail. If you take a look at the picture, you can see there's a blank space where someone's address would normally go if this was a real postcard. But since we're sending them in envelopes, I don't need to write the address there. I don't want to leave a big empy space, but I don't want to rewrite their address either. I was thinking of just writing their name there or maybe "hope you can make it!" or something along those lines. I'm stuck on this, so any opinions would be much appreciated!! Thanks for reading.
