I’m wondering how to handle when someone buys you something to use at the wedding and you would prefer to use something else. For example, a family friend bought me a guestbook for Christmas to use at the wedding and while it’s a nice guestbook, I would rather have my own personalized one (thinking of getting on from Etsy). This friend will be at the wedding and I’m worried her feelings will be hurt if she doesn’t see the guestbook she bought for me? Do I suck it up and use her gift out of courtesy or do I get the guestbook I would prefer?