Our wedding is going to be really small (60 guest max) and we're only inviting our immediate family & a few very close friends. How should we go about announcing our wedding, or should we? I really don't care about people knowing, I just don't want to be questioned about the size of it. Also, would it be appropriate to have a wedding shower since the actual wedding itself is going to be so small and most of those people wouldn't be invited to the wedding. Seems kinda greedy to have people to the shower but not to the wedding? I'd rather just not have a shower . . .