I've never been to a wedding before so I really don't know how to do this and we have four days to figure this out (well, now pretty much 3 since today is over).
1. We're not sure what order to do stuff. Should we do the first dance and father daughter dance before eating? After eating? And when do cut the cake? Its really gray because we're doing a buffet (if it helps, we planned on letting everyone go as they can since it will be 60 people max, and honestly about 10 are looking like last minute bails).
2. How do we best announce the wedding is over? We have until 9:30 (the ceremony is at 5:30 then cocktail hour until pictures are done, then the reception) and we're not sure how to let people know they need to leave. The venue will not let us stay longer (besides for clean up).