My cousin just passed away and he was invited to the wedding. When I sent out the invites I did not include his "wife" on the invite. For the last few years my parents and I thought they where divorced. So she was not included. But after the funeral I found out they where just separated not divorced. The separations was due to the fact of my cousin trying to work through some personal daemons and get his life back on track. Now I feel bad not having included her. I would have invited her knowing they still where together. But with only 20 days till the big day I feel funny inviting her, and look like a sympathy invite. Now I am not sure what to do? I really would have included her if I known this before hand, but afraid it is to late. I could really use advice on this?