My family is huge and very family oriented All our parties/get togethers that we have thrown includes everyone ... I think i will be the first to plan an adult only wedding lol .I love my little family memebers but my venue is elagant everything is glass and honeslty i dont want to be stressed watching all these little ones run around. Plus I want everyone to have a good time and enjoy a night out. One of my aunts does not understand why i would choose a place like that knowing mostly eveyone has kids including me ( i have two daughters and a 8 yr old sister who are part of the bridal party & They will be at the wedding ofcourse) and she is trying to convince me that its not fair and she probably wont be able to attend. My wedding is 3/23/13 so its more than enough time to figure out who can babysit I love my family but i dont want this to become a big issue and im actually starting to feel bad now ....Am i wrong or being rude? ... How should i deal with thisand still be kind ?