I don't think the 2 new ones were touched on in the KPS thread yesterday, but forgive me if they were.
1.) I've done it, too. I've never tried to get pregnant and we're at least months away from it right now. NBD. I'm curious about stuff. I guess I don't see why this is such a big secret.
2.) I understand the feeling. However, I really don't think anyone will call you ugly and if they do, they risk bannination since that is against TOS. Also, from what I've seen, usually the only people who throw out low insults like that are trolls or newbies who get their feelers hurt. Go ahead and post pics! I really don't think anyone will call you ugly.
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http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/ETA: added link