So I just sent out save the dates today for my fiance and I's wedding... yay!! Then about 2 hours later my fiance's step mother in law calls and says that she has emailed me the guests that she would like on the list. Now mind you, this stepmother in law and the fiance's father are paying for a little less than half the actual wedding. I had emailed her a month ago asking for addresses of specific people on the guest list and never heard from her. My blood boiled a little bit as I read the list of their family friends that they wanted invited. I considered our guest list final before sending out the save the dates and we are actually above capacity for the reception site (especially if it rains) with just family and lifelong friends. My fiance called the step mother in law and father and explained this but I am still feeling guilty about this. Does the fact that they are contributing to our wedding mean that they get to invite who they want to it? My fiance and I were extremely reluctant to take the money in the first place... now I am wishing that I hadn't.