I am doing my invites right now and I not sure how to address one of them. The situation is one big mess so to make a long story short my friend is married and has left her husband. He is military and is living in a different state and she moved back here (her home town) and started seeing another guy. Since then has moved in with him so when I asked for her address she gave me his. She is not legally separated or anything and this new guy she is seeing is not invited to the wedding. We do not get along at all and it is a mutual understanding that he is not coming.
So my question is, do I address the invite to her and he husband or do I address it to just her? If I address it to just her, do I use her married name or her maiden name? Thanks so much